If someone told me they’re moving to New York before their 20s, I’d ask them this: [1] Do you know how to be alone? Because NYC will make sure you learn. It’s loud, fast, overwhelming—but it’s also you, your thoughts, and a city that doesn’t stop for anyone. [2] Can you handle rejection? Because here, you’ll hear “no” more than anywhere else. From jobs to apartments to opportunities that seemed meant for you. But if you keep going, the right “yes” will find you. [3] Do you have at least one thing that makes you feel like yourself? A playlist, a perfume, a routine—something to hold onto when the city tries to shake you. [4] Are you okay with not having everything figured out? Because no one here does. New York is built on people who showed up, tried, failed, and tried again. [5] Do you know why you’re coming? It doesn’t have to be deep. Maybe it’s just a feeling, a dream, a pull. But hold onto that reason—because on the hard days, it’ll be the only thing that keeps you here. New York isn’t easy. It’ll test you, shape you, break you a little. But if you can answer these questions—or at least be ready to find out—you just might make it.