everyone here lives in their own-style New York. So here are my hot takes on a common misconceptions that can ruin the real city for you: [1] “You’ll make it if you just work hard.” No — everyone works hard here. It’s about who you meet, the chances you take, and how fast you get back up after getting knocked down. [2] “The city is your playground.” Sure… if your playground charges $20 for a sandwich and expects you to chase your dreams while dodging rats and rent hikes. [3] “You’ll find your people.” Eventually. But first, you’ll spend nights alone, walking through crowds of strangers, wondering if you made a mistake. Spoiler: You didn’t. [4] “It’s a nonstop adventure.” More like a crash course in survival. The magic is real — but so are the subway delays, the side hustles, and the moments you cry on the sidewalk for no reason. [5] “Living here will change you.” This one isn’t a lie. NYC will break you open and build you back stronger. You’ll become sharper, braver, and more yourself than ever before. The truth? NYC isn’t the dream — you are. The city just shows you what you’re made of.