If someone told me they’re moving to New York without a plan, I’d tell them this: [1] Be ready for the city to humble you. You might think you know exactly who you are, but New York will test that—fast. The way you adapt will define your experience. [2] The city won’t wait for you to catch up. You’ll miss trains, opportunities, and moments because everything moves at a speed that forces you to keep up or fall behind. But once you find your rhythm, it’s magic. [3] It’s not just about surviving, it’s about staying. Anyone can make it here for a few months. The real challenge is learning how to build a life in the chaos. [4] Your dream won’t be enough—you’ll need discipline. You might come here with ambition, but it’s the everyday grind that turns a dream into reality. [5] The hardest part isn’t making it. It’s deciding how much you’re willing to give up to stay. Some days, you’ll question if it’s worth it. But if New York is really meant for you, you’ll always find a reason to stay. This city isn’t for everyone. But if you learn to play by its rules—and then break a few—you just might belong here.