I was kinda touched when @gunuw228 did this when my shoe was untied yesterday 🥹 And I suddenly remembered a comment under an old video telling me that I will “soon enough see his real side“ and that “he will stop doing those things after a few months”.. 😄 So what do I wanna say with this stupid little video? 1) First of all, I’m not saying that every man should tie his partner’s shoes.. 😂 I just think no one should settle for someone that stops putting effort into the relationship. (That goes for both sides of course!) 💪🏼 2) In the beginning this habit of @gunuw228 felt so weird to me.. I’m not a child, I’m a grown, strong and independent woman! But I quickly understood that this is his way of showing love and respect.. maybe a cultural thing? He told me, he always did this for his older brother when they were young and he would do the same for his parents. I learned to love it 🙈❤️ Would you feel respected or belittled by this gesture? 3) And lastly a reminder to not project our own bitterness and experiences on everyone else and to not comment stuff just to make people feel bad or to make them question their current happiness. Instead let’s share love and support ❤️ #couple #relationship #korea #seoul #expat #internationalcouple #korean #german #travel #southkorea